Someone may now have an expectation of you that you are uncomfortable with. This person sees you as a more refined, less imaginative version of yourself. Perhaps this person is hoping to soften some of your wild ideas or tame your imagination. While this individual’s goal is purely to help you - since this is someone who cares for you - you have to embrace the spirit in which his or her advice is intended. But that doesn’t mean you have to take it. You can and will succeed with a current goal as the person you already are. Don’t let anyone try to change you.